Our family probably wouldn't be considered the "roughing it" type, and this despite the fact that Katie grew up camping and I was an Eagle Scout. We drop the occassional snobbish joke of staying at a Courtyard is roughing it. Truthfully, I'm not sure why we haven't done a lot of camping. I think part of it is that we both work and are so busy that what little time we do have to get away, we like ease and comfort. I think in the back of my mind I sort of wish I was more outdoorsy, I love walking into REI and seeing all the cool stuff. I certainly did my fair share of camping and even some backpacking as a teenager. I mean Katie and I even had a family wedding shower where all we wanted was camping equipment. The items we received from that camping shower have been used a total of once.
So I was feeling sort of guilty about not exposing Gwen to the great outdoors. She complained about never going camping and Katie was always quick to remind her that we often go to
Grandpa's Cabin in Fish Lake, Utah. "That's not camping, I mean somewhere where we build a fire and sleep in a tent." It's funny how Gwen often doubts anything that Katie or I claim to have once done. I've explained that I've camped, fished, backpacked, hunted, and she mocks. She only sees me as a late 30 something whose only engagement in the outdoors is to swing golf clubs while riding a cart and eating a hotdog. So I decided to kill two birds with one stone, first to prove to her that I'm not as big a wuss as she thinks and second to fulfill her request of sleeping in a tent. However, as she and I discussed where and when to go, Mason caught wind and that was that...he was going.
I spent the next 2 weeks trying to prepare for our one night camping trip, and buying all the essentials to pull this trip off (how nice of a hotel could we have stayed in for the $500 I spent on camping and fishing gear?). I admit that it was slightly complicated by the fact that I insisted on backpacking 3 miles to a remote mountain lake at over 10,000 ft. above sea level. It would have been easier to drive 10 minutes from our home to American Fork Canyon, pile out of the car, put up a tent, roll out some lawn chairs and eat pizza we picked up along the way. But I wanted Gwen to have the authentic camping experience of hitting a trail and finding a remote camp spot with no one else in sight.
We invited Katie's sister and her 2 teenage sons to join us. I admit there were some sinister motives in the thought of having two healthy pack mules along. We met at 7:00 a.m. Saturday morning and started our 3 hour drive to Spirit Lake in the High Uinta Mountains. Katie learned from a co-worker that had recently been to Spirit Lake that it had a lodge, cabins that could be rented, a convenience store and restaurant and thought that sounded about perfect. But Spirit Lake was simply the spot we parked to start our hike to Tamarack Lake. I had camped around Tamarack 3 or 4 times as a teen ager and always had fond memories of my trips and therefore wanted the family to see it. So we got out of the car, loaded on our borrowed packs (has anyone weighed a 5 man tent?) and started on the path.
The hike back in was well marked but had countless large rocks in the trail. This meant that either Katie or I had to hold Mason's 4 year old hand the entire hike rather than deal with the inevitable facial damage and stitches that would have occurred had he walked 10 feet on his own. I was proud of him though, he kept moving those little legs and only broke down into absolute tears about 300 yards from our camp spot. As the trail finally arrived at Tamarack Lake, 10,400 feet above sea level, I could see the defeat when I explained that the camp spot was on the far end of the lake, another 3/4 of a mile away. We trudged on. The challenge of the hike was made better by the beauty of the lake and surrounding lodgepole pines. We also had enjoyed the neat experience of walking up on a cow and calf moose. We finally found our overnight home tucked back in the far corner of the lake. The camp spot wasn't quite how I remembered it, back when I used to camp in the spot, it appeared as though and overly ambitious scout troop had cleared out tent spots, built a makeshift table and fire pit. The camp was still pretty nice, but in the 18 years since I'd been there a few trees had fallen in the middle of the camp. I lately sheepishly admitted to Katie we probably could have stopped at some other spots about 1/2 mile back.
Setting up camp was a breeze and Katie jumped in to help like an old pro. It was just in the nick of time too because within about 20 minutes of getting everything set up, it started to rain and there was some thunder. There are two things that really scare Mason; the dark and thunder. I guess I didn't think through that he' be faced with both in a big way on this trip. He decided he only wanted to be in the tent and I don't think Katie minded because they spent the next 3 hours in there napping while Gwen and I went off to try our hand at fishing. Over that time I think I witnessed the full emotional range of a 10 year old girl. I wasn't going to baby her and basically handed her a pole with bubble and fly attached, showed her how to cast and said "ok, there you go." I think she had casts that hit rocks, casts where the bubble wrapped around the pole, casts where about 20 feet of line got tangled by her reel and I just told her to "figure it out" and "that's part of fishing." I swear I must have some Chinese Tiger Mom gene in me. Meanwhile she was mumbling how stupid this is and couldn't figure out why people even like fishing in the first place. She finally got it figured out and had a hit. I saw the determination set in and about 15 minutes she caught her first fish. It was a beautiful 12" native brook trout that was bright and colorful (why did I leave the camera in my bag!). So the mood went to elation and joy. I was proud of her for sticking it out.
Later the kids got to enjoy a dinner of canned chili thrown in a campfire. Gwen also wanted to cook her fish, and then ate one bite. As we talked, Katie asked Gwen what she thought of her first camping trip. She answered, "um...I'd rather be in Thailand, but this is pretty great too". After some clean-up and more fishing we called it a night around 9:00. I had forgotten how much I hated sleeping in a sleeping bag. I also forgot how difficult it is to get comfortable sleeping on a tent floor. But this time I had a few new experiences. I didn't know how difficult it is to sleep next to a coughing 4 year old. I had no idea that right when I finally drifted off into a deep sleep would be the exact moment that our 10 year old would get up and frantically engage everyone's assistance in getting out of the tent to go pee. About 4:45 a.m. I gave up, got my shoes on and went out and started a fire. I was lonely until about 5:30 when Katie's sister came out after trying to sleep in a soaked sleeping bag all night. All that said, I'm actually happy I got out before the sun came up because I haven't seen stars like that in many, many years...they were amazing.
The next morning was all about eating breakfast, burning about 15 pounds of crap that we didn't need to pack back out with us and setting our course back to the car. Although the packs were lighter, I think poor Mason's legs must have been exhausted. He asked to be carried several times and for a short distance I gave in and carried him up this incline, 45 pounds of kid, 50 pounds of pack, uphill at over 10,000 feet elevation and I was starting to wonder if another hernia surgery was in my future. We arrived back to our car about 10:30 a.m. We were all exhausted and I was secretly glad Katie couldn't get off early Friday and thus only have one night in the mountains. I'm sure we'll camp again soon, but it might be the kind where you pull up and empty the car and throw up a tent. We might have to save backpacking until the kids are a little older.
I don't know if it was everyone's favorite trip, Gwen would have rather been in Thailand and I know Katie would always rather be at a beach and Mason a pool, but it was still a new experience. I'm not sure why but I have this thing that really wants to create as many memories as I can with our kids and I'm already getting a sense of how short our time together is before they leave us. I hope Gwen will remember that fish she caught, I know I will.
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| Tamarack Lake at Sunset |
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| Mason trying to hook a fish |
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| Quite the fisherman |
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| Gwen enjoying her first camping trip |
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| Hike back out toward Spirit Lake |
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| Evening time at Tamarack Lake |
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| Katie and Mason hiking out |
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| 3 mile hike to 10,400 ft elevation Lake Tamarack |